My Bf is so paranoid that i am cheating on him, or that i flirt too much etc. It's driving me crazy. To the point i am starting to question our entire year relationship. How can i stop it??
I met him 10 days after breaking up with my ex of 2 1/2yrs... so understandably he thought he was a rebound. But i truely consider him my best friend and love him dearly. Recently my ex contracted me by myspace and his page was in my history. I told him to F**k off and blocked him. My bf checked his profile, and is now questioning me to no end as to why i should be looking at his profile after being with him for almost a year....
To make matters worse. 3 months into our relationship i chatting to a guy (who could clearly see from my profile i was with my BF) for one day while bored at work and my bf was too busy... and he spied on my profile when i forgot to log-out and accused me of being too flirty and setting up options in-case i wanted to cheat on him or dump him....
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
are you keeping your options open? he's probably just worried that when you find someone else that sparks your attention that you'll leave him. maybe thats what happens to rebound guys - in denial or not, but dating someone 10 days after a 2.5 year relationship - very much REBOUND!!
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
stick with your current boyfriend. tell him truth about everything and then it should be all perfect.
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
delete your history!
safari: history... clear history.
explorer: ctrl+h... right click on desired time to delete... delete.
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
If he doesnt trust you then whats the point of the relationship... talk to him about it.... tell him about trust and that he is the only one for you... (if thats the case at this time)
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
ur bf just cares about u. his behaviour sounds a bit annoying, but guys get jealous easy. just let him now how much u love him, and reasure him u would never cheat on him.
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
It sounds like he cares about you %26amp; sorry to say but by your behavior as you described I can see why he might worry. But if you have been completely honest %26amp; explained everything then he should trust you. I know that being with someone insecure can damage your relationship. Just stop talking to other guys as much when your bf is busy. And delete your history if you are going to!! Good luck!
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
your bf is definitely insecure... just make him feel special as much as you can and assure him that he's the only one for you.. make him feel loved as much as you can... :) ... if he truly loves you, he would have faith and trust in you... and he will believe you no matter what...
How do i stop my BF being paranoid??? Myspace woe's...?
Well he is clearly insecure cos he like u or love you too much to risk loosing you so he must be really worried that you are loosing interest of him and so he might loose you but at the same time his behavior is causing him more harm that he thinks.
So just calm down, speak to him and explain things to him and tell him that u understand that he is worried that he will loose you but that's not going to happen and ask him to trust you and explain things happen some time which is out of ur control and work with you to correct them. you can also explain that this sort of behavior which he's doing now is more harmful for the relationship than the chat you had.
So give the poor chap a Chance he just over worried he'll loose you.
All the best and hope things work out
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